3. Real numbers $x, y$ satisfy $4 x^{2}-5 x y+4 y^{2}=5$ Let $s$ $=x^{2}+y^{2}$, then $\frac{1}{s_{\text {max }}}+\frac{1}{s_{\text {min }}}$ is

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